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| The titles "marriage and family counselor,"
or "marriage and family therapist" have different meanings in
different places according to individual state statutes governing their use. In
some states, anyone can hang out a shingle and use those titles with no training
of any kind. I will be discussing some general information on the subject here,
with some specific references to the use of these terms in California. To get
more specific information about other states, see my page about checking
qualifications. In California, the title "marriage and family therapist" has replaced the title "marriage and family counselor" under the present statute. The term refers to a professional person who is has training and experience in helping people resolve marital problems, parent-child problems and other relationship problems. Many people are a little apprehensive about consulting someone for problems of this type because they don’t know what to expect and because so much is at stake. A well-trained and experienced marriage and family therapist will do a good job of making you feel comfortable and at ease in the privacy of his or her office. What can you expect when you consult a marriage and family therapist? If you were to consult me I would start by asking you questions about the immediate problem that brings you in and about the history of the relationship. My first job is to learn what is going wrong in the relationship. My next job is to help you arrive at some new answers which will improve communication, make good decisions, resolve conflicts and meet the emotional needs of each person in the relationship. A knowledgeable marriage and family therapist does not try to find out who is the "good guy" or "bad guy" or to attack or demean either person. Successful relationship counseling involves respecting the feelings and needs of each partner in the relationship and helping them find solutions that work for both of them. You can expect a marriage and family therapist to conduct himself or herself in an ethical, sensitive and professional manner and to keep your visits private and confidential. Personal counseling can play an important role in helping you deal successfully with issues of great importance and significance in your life. The stakes are high. Therefore it is essential that you see a professional person who is both well qualified and highly experienced. It is my personal recommendation that you see seek out someone with a Ph.D. degree in psychology who is identified and licensed both as a marriage and family therapist and as a psychologist. In California, they should show these titles, and license numbers for both titles in their listing in the telephone book as is required by state law. Someone with these qualifications is best prepared to deal with all aspects of any relationship and personal problems that may come up. You should feel free to ask any professional person you consult about his or her qualifications and experience. A well-qualified person will not be offended by such questions and will be happy to tell you about his or her training. Be sure to ask where they went to school, how long they have been in practice in your community and whether they have any university or hospital affiliations. As an example of information about qualifications and training that a psychologist might provide, here is the information I would provide about myself: I took my B.A., M.A. and Ph.D. degrees in psychology at the University of California at Los Angeles. I was an Assistant Professor of Medical Psychology on the Clinical Teaching Faculty in the Department of Psychiatry and Human Behavior at the University of California at Irvine for more than 20 years. I am on staff at Long Beach Community Medical Center and Fountain Valley Regional Hospital. I am licensed in the State of California as a psychologist (license no. PSY 1036) and as a Marriage and Family Counselor (license no. M676). My National Register of Health Service Providers in Psychology number is1288. I have been in the practice of clinical psychology in the Long Beach, California and Orange County, California communities for more than 20 years. For further information about my training, experience and office locations, click on Marvin S. Beitner, Ph.D. |
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